Advice wanted, please.

[Inveigle]

There's this guy on this forum I go to. I like him...Yes, I like someone I've never even met. Trouble is, he's more than a little mean to me, but that's the point, I'm attracted to challenges. On the forum, it's cool to hate me, only a few don't. He's been nice to me on occassion, I know that deep down he's nice but at the moment he obviously cares too much what people think. I'm not the type to want a long distance relationship, but I at least would like to be his friend. This is impossible. He's blocked me on AIM, Msn and the forum I'm on. The only place he hasn't blocked me is Facebook and I'm too scared to message him and ask why he's doing it. He says I'm annoying and talk too much. :/

Advice? All advice is much appreciated.

[Bloody_Saint]

scrap him and go with me XD anyhow back on topic hmmm thats a tough one maybe hes already taken and is mean to you b/c he cant have you even thought he wants you??? i really dont know just taking a guess in the wind

[Inveigle]

Haha, oh you. :p

No, I know for sure he's single.

He thinks I'm hideous. Everyone on that forum says I am, well, at least the ones with influence. The ones with influence just so happen to be the ones that hate me. They say I'm hideous because when I joined 2 years ago, I was low on self esteem and they originally said I was pretty and nice and stuff but my self esteem didn't improve overnight. They got sick of it and started to insult me.

I don't know how, but I have my self esteem back.

[Bloody_Saint]

hmm that really is a tough one then well if ya give up on him ill be here waiting 8)

[Inveigle]

Heh, thank you. I just edited my post before too.

[Bloody_Saint]

wow that sound like a really crappy forum you had low self esteem issues so they insult you??? wtf people should know by now nothing is ever an overnight fix well cept a hangover lol but still what forum is that id like to go rip them all a new one maybe two

[Inveigle]

Haha, it doesn't matter where, but thanks for being supportive.

[Bloody_Saint]

np anytime seeing as how your heart is taken by another ill settle for being the supportive friend till ya come around lol anyhow noobie or mel might be able to offer some advice on what to do with that guy out of most the people here they seem the wisest

[Inveigle]

Ah, thanks for that. Yeah, I've read some of their posts, they do seem quite lovely. As does everyone here which I've had the pleasure of conversing with.

[diesel]

i say stuff him, move to perth and lets have a joint 18th :D

[Inveigle]

Yes, let's do that. It may possibly take my mind off the abusive male.

[noobie]

Id get him out your mind pretty quick hun or hes gonna bring your self esteem down big time. He really isnt worth it, and i know ya like a challenge hun, and lads that play hard to get, but he's taking the pi**

Youre worth a million times more than he will ever give you.
He sounds like a waste of space.

Online romances do work though, i used to be on a forum, and 2 of my friends on there got pretty friendly online, over msn and stuff...then one day they decided to meet, and theyve been together for a couple of yrs now, happy as can be :) Theyve moved in together, and are gonna get married soon.

You have all your life to have fun, make the most of it instead of wasting your time on this loser :)

Good luck in whatever you decide to do :D

[xBRONCOS]

he's not worth all that trouble! Get him out of your head before he really makes you crazy!!!

[Etha]

Oh dearest =\

This guy sounds like an uber jerk-face. Take it from someone who's actually in a long distant relationship with a guy I met on a forum....if he's not nice to you now, he never will be. That's a cold hard fact about relationships starting over the internet. If he doesn't want to take the time to know you, hun, then he's not worth it.

On the other hand, if in fact you do meet someone over the internet who actually cares about then that's a different story! BTW, if you still want to stay on the forum do so, but I wouldn't if they were mean to me like that...those kind of people just don't deserve your time of day.

Screw them and make SB your new home! We take you in with open arms ^^

[Vintage]

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[ArmedCivilian]

Well, I wouldn't drop the forum but that's because I'm a very stubborn person that would rather take a little suffering then see someone else triumph over me.

I would, too, just forget about him. A few compliments don't make up for lack of interest and emotional abuse. If forgetting him is out of the question use your last Facebook attempts to make peace with him, rather than make love. :P It might have more of an effect.

As I've said many a times, relationships are not my forte so by all means don't take my post too seriously.

[Inveigle]

I had a very civil conversation with him today, actually. But thanks for your advice, everyone, you're all being very helpful. I think I'll just avoid him for a little bit, if he goes out of his way to be nice to me, we'll see.