Death

[Bloody_Saint]

ok im not sure if this is right area for this but i want to know how every one takes it like say your mother or someone close to you passed.i want to know if im the only cold unfeeling one XD.yes i have had many deaths in my family some very close some not so but each has affected me the same way i smile and say ah well and move on with life.i mean i will miss them but why cry over something that will eventually get us all in the end anyways?why do people go to such extreme ends on their emotions after someone they know or care for dies?


(sorry if this offends anyone but curiosity got the better of me and i need to know)

[-bH.munky]

My family that have died have been to**ers, thats my uncles on my dads side in other words. My aunties on my dads side were also s*** annoying but my grandparents weren't. My mums dad is the only one left on the face of the earth. He ain't gonna be round for much longer with his wooden hip. I like my grandparents but I don't feel sad or anything really. Dunno why I'm just not an emotional person. I hate my uncles so I feel happy now, but there ya go, thats me for ya.

[Etha]

Well I've had a few deaths in my family and they all kind of seemed to just fly by without another thought but when i was around 6 and 7 my grandma learned she had cancer and died within a few months. Worst few months of my life =\

It's terrible to see someone that was basically your mother waste away until all she can do is sit in her hospital bed and count the dots on her ceiling....and when you go to see her she doesn't remember who you are.

When she died I never cried and I kept myself from feeling sad because I thought thats what I was supposed to do...and now I find that I've developed Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) because of it..

[MonkeyKing]

in my life time i friends killed family pass away to the ponit that i can't cry anymore their is no reason to do it anymore for me and for a while i loss my faith in humanmanity

[+dd. jeffsigs]

Well I am a christian so when death comes knocking, it doesn't bother me much, I am sad but I know that this is not the end. I lost my dad and all I could care about was, Was he saved, did he ask Jesus into his life. I was really hurt becuase I dont know if he did. (says in the Bible that the only way to heaven is through Jesus, asking Jesus into your life and believing in his death on the Cross for our sins.) then a year later I lost his Mother, my grandmother and again I was more happy than sad, I knew she was a Strong Christian and the same with my Wifes 15yr Old brother that passed away.

This is just how I am with Death, I am not saying this to convert non believers or push my religious beliefs or step on anyones toes. I am just answering a question.