Friend troubles

[Jack_of_Spades]

I'll try to keep this complicated situation short.

So my friend...he kinda has a problem with going back to the same girl after they break up. He has dated this one chick atleast 4 times within about a year and a half. She's NO good for him. Bossing him around, playing with him (emotionally. get ur head outta the gutters), and making him miserable. Inturn, I'm the person he *****es (pardon mon Francais) to all the time and needless to say, I'm annoyed with it.

So after they finally broke up for good, he says they might get back together. AHHH :evil: :evil: . I don't want to have to go through that hell of a year and a half of having half hour conversations with him going on about how the girl did something he didn't like!

Don't get me wrong, he's one of my best friends but it has gotten so bad in the past that I'm no longer gonna speak to him if he goes back out with her.

Do you think I'm being a little extereme or is it a good approach?

[Sundance]

Some people just don't know what's good for them. Coulden't you try talking to him? Make him understand how you feel about all this, you are afterall he is one of your best mates.

I'd lay it all out. Just don't angle it as if it's some sort of ultimatum or anything though. Tell him your worried about him and so on.

Good luck!

[True Yugo]

freinds stick together. sooner or later he will eather see the light or go farther south. me personally, I got one freind that had bad habits, including drugs but he stoped about a year out of high school. that may be a annoying thing but my best advise is to be a freind. you never know when it will be the other way around.

[noobie]

I think at the end of the day, no matter how many people warn him against her, he will still keep going back to her. Nobody ever truly realises how bad their situation really is, till theyre out of it, and when relationships break up, all people seem to remember are the good times, they forget all the bad untill theyre back in that situation.
No matter how much advice you give him, hes still gonna keep making the same mistake by going back to her, untill one day, he will suddenly see sense. And then hes gonna need you more than ever hun.
All you can do, and i know this is a pain in the ***, but all you can do is be there for him.
Its gonna be hard on you too, seeing your friend hurt, other people are always affected by relationships, and people dont realise it.
At the end of the day, just be there for him when he needs you. There will come a day that yous will laugh about all this, and he will move on...Maybe one day you will be the same as him, and not want to let a woman go, and he will be the one picking up the pieces, so keep your mate close hun.

[ePoot]

I'll try to keep this complicated situation short.

So my friend...he kinda has a problem with going back to the same girl after they break up. He has dated this one chick atleast 4 times within about a year and a half. She's NO good for him. Bossing him around, playing with him (emotionally. get ur head outta the gutters), and making him miserable. Inturn, I'm the person he *****es (pardon mon Francais) to all the time and needless to say, I'm annoyed with it.

So after they finally broke up for good, he says they might get back together. AHHH :evil: :evil: . I don't want to have to go through that hell of a year and a half of having half hour conversations with him going on about how the girl did something he didn't like!

Don't get me wrong, he's one of my best friends but it has gotten so bad in the past that I'm no longer gonna speak to him if he goes back out with her.

Do you think I'm being a little extereme or is it a good approach?

i dont think your being extreme at all. Some people dont realize that 98% of the time dating like that is just a hollow relationship