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xBRONCOS
11-25-2007, 06:27 PM
hmmm lets see lately my uncle just moved in my room. it's tough becuase i've never really got to know him because my mom and him got in a fight when i was young, but they patched things up. He use to smoke but said he quit, but yesterday i got the mail and my dog ran out and went to the back of he house i shouted "get back here tiger!" then i heard my uncle say i got him i said no it's alright but he said no! got him frankie i said ok. when i was walkin back to the house i smelled cigarete smoke comin from were he was. i knew he was hiding somethin becasue he just poked his head out not hi entire body...
sneaky eh?
Yea that sucks, I had an uncle like that too, and his smoking got really really bad. I tend not to hold a grudge on people for smoking though because I view it as their life and their decision.
xBRONCOS
11-25-2007, 06:30 PM
i agree with you
noobie
11-25-2007, 06:44 PM
well being a smoker myself, i can comment pretty well i think
Its really really hard to quit....your uncle probably feels like hes let himself down by starting up again, and maybe let everyone else down, thats probably why hes hiding it.
Just let him know that you will do all you can to help him thru his craving as they are very hard to surpass and he will probably need all the help he can get.
But tell him that honesty is the best policy especially if he is to live with you.
Ive tried for years to quit but no such luck, i managed to quit alright when i was pregnant with my children, but ended up starting again. :(
Costs way too much money and as ya know is extremely unhealthy for ya....so for you young ones out there wanting to give it a try, please dont, i know you will regret it.
bigun
11-25-2007, 06:51 PM
quiting smoking is really hard,
i used to smoke, but quit back in march. Its well hard, i had no finger nails left, the cravings are bad! I stuck with it though and now feel far better, i used to wake up in the morning coughing my guts up,..."not good". :cry: .! even though i quit back in march i still get cravings now, especially after meals, so like noobie said tell him to be honest and help him through his cravings!
xBRONCOS
11-25-2007, 07:01 PM
thanks noobie and biggun . his daughter smokes to shes like 36 and i think shes the one giving it to him becasue whenever she come s he somkes.
noobie
11-25-2007, 07:17 PM
ah yeah, thatll deffo not help him..whenever i quit, thats always the thing that starts me again, having others going for a smoke
tradedemon
11-25-2007, 07:21 PM
Im not a big fan of smoking although I have family who smoke alot of cigars...
All i can say once you're hooked you can't stop...
chews
11-26-2007, 06:22 AM
smoking sucks,it ruins your life,its like drugs,& cost alots
diesel
11-26-2007, 07:54 AM
ive been totally put off by my family smoking!
my gr8 grandma,grandma and aunty are the only 1s to have quit!
although my aunty had to cuz she got too sick!
moose
11-26-2007, 08:20 PM
My dads a smoker , about 6 months ago he promised me he would quit and i was really glad he would , but about 3 days ago he started smoking again and that really made me mad :x
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