ok help!! with people

[Storm]

ok i need help ive thought of this heaps over the holidays and now i go bk to school on Thursday i like a gal in my old form class and i don't think we will be in the same class again dis year i really like her and theres some signs that she like me but at the same time some that sh docent. but theres also another gal that i know likes me heaps but im not to shire if i like her as much as she does me and if i ask this gal i like out and she says yes i don't want this other gal to get upset cause i still like her as a really good friend wit potential im really confused on how to approach my crush and see if she likes me and also i dont know if she has a bf.
NOTE: my crush is really popular im not as popular and most people think im a retard cause i go to the special learning class cause i have a phiscall imparity (im not as active as most people) and im a slow learner. also those 2 factors may get in the way. someone plz help me with this prob it would be greatly appreciated

[ArmedCivilian]

I'd go with the girl that likes you. Less chance of rejection and though I hate to say it the other girl may be playing you. I see it happen a lot with kids in my school and yours looks like the type of case. But what do I know? I suck at reading people.

By the way, has this forum turned into a half graphic half self help type of thing?

[Storm]

lol i don't like your answer even know it may be true lol

[Vintage]

Storm, if its just "like" then dont care, It should be hard at first, but if you keep saying to yourself, i dont care, you wont. Relationships are overrated. I see all of them and i know its just part of growing up, and you wont be with the same girl in a month/year/5 years. So there is really no point distracting yourself from learning for a girl that wont matter in the future.

[Eurika]

Hey. Ok first thing's first.. yeah you still got alot of time to find the right person for ya, but looking at it as tho it dosen't matter is wrong in my opinnion. There have been ppl who have found their love in high school... and even younger b/c they grew up together. The draw back to that is thay it may not be true love between them, it's usually just them carring about that friend so mutch they are willing to share that w/o seeing each other in heart break.
For ur situation, the girl you like may just be playing games to see what she can get you to do(boy toy) There also may be the case that maybe she does find you attractive, some girls actually don't care about looks and popularity. The way I would find out in ur posistion is actually try and talk to her and get to know her...A good way to find out if she is even willing to be a friend to you, her way to get to know you.

[noobie]

Some cool advice given already...
I think you should just go with the flow hun, what will be, will be....if its meant to be, itll happen.
Please dont just get with someone though hun just to make you popular, youre lovely as you are, and no girl on your arm will make any difference to that.
Just have fun and enjoy life...become friendlier with these girls, then in time youll be sure to know what you want, and what they want :) No rush :)

good luck

[ArmedCivilian]

Are there really popular categories anymore? I don't seem to find this at all in my school. Maybe I am just on the popular end and don't realize but I really think it has pretty much been abolished. There are lots of clicks or whatever they are called though.

[Storm]

cool ty guys i have to say i don't seem to like gals cause there populer or not i go for the looks and try to get to know if i like them but im more of the secretive type so its hard but i get allot of info cause i have allot of accaintenses and only like 1 true friend lol but his the best ^_^ lol well it turns out i got back to school for grade 10 and im in every almost class as her like my mates in almost every class as his crush which where suspicious about lol
oh and btw we dot really have any thing like populer people in our school we just have the loners me lol the people with allot of friends and thats about all lol